In a society in which the work routine has been extended, it is necessary to understand that the dedication to the family must be more qualitative. This is because family unity can be swallowed up by lack of time and excessive stress. When family members lose intimate intimacy, the separation is gradually reduced, and often the situation will only become apparent when a family breakdown already exists.
Lack of attention to the family makes the separations happen and the children drift down the dark paths. Many spouses are surprised by a request for divorce or with children involved in bad company and addictions. None of this happens suddenly, but it goes unnoticed.
To make the most of family time, a few tips:
1- Quality of time
Optimize the hours of your day by assigning the time to spend with family members. Remember that it is not the amount that will keep the family together but the quality of time.
Promote balance between your professional and personal life. Try not to wear out so much, calmly, all things earn more.
Give preference to participate in family life. So when you are with the family, give it your full attention.
4- Time for everything
The work, the computer, the cell phone, the newspaper or any other activity can be done at a certain time, but they do not match the family moments.
Talk truly with everyone you love. Develop frank and sincere dialogues with them. Listen to your family members and value their opinion.
6- Be understanding
There is no good relationship without understanding the other, so try to be more tolerant and, even without agreeing, respect the other’s way and act.
7- No rush
At times designated for the family, escape the rush and seize the opportunity. If you can not be with them at all dinners, for example, invite them to a quiet dinner at least once a week.
8- Have fun with family
Play with your children in a happy mood. You will get to know them a lot more, in addition to enjoying moments of pure satisfaction. Promote family outings and moments of relaxation.
9- Have fun with your spouse
Choose moments to be lived for two. Walk with your spouse as much as you can and with great excitement.
10- Cultivate a good mood
Try to get away from everyday problems and always have a smile to offer to family members. Never forget to tell how much they are important to you.